When Children are Bored

By P.M., Denmark

When children are bored or don’t know how to spend their time, they often as we all know come to their parents with complaints like "I’m bored..., I don’t know what to do. Mum/dad, there is nothing to do, can I watch a movie?" and so on.

When my daughter was about five or six years old she was no different, but one day when she was asking what she could do, I happened to think of the Hi C. So I asked her to sit down on a chair and talk to the wise part with all the fine ideas inside herself.

She willingly did so and sat down for just a little while. Then she jumped out of the chair saying, "Now I have got a great idea!" and went on to do whatever it was she had received from her Hi C.

We never talked of the Hi C, just about the wise part inside herself, which is a term that applies to everyone.

Work with Triangle in a Family

By Dr. med. G.S., München, Germany

They asked if I would have a solution for them. I knew that I couldn’t give them a magic word as help, but I gave them a tool in the form of the Triangle to connect to the Hi C. Because I didn’t have much time, I introduced them to the Maypole meditation and the Triangle meditation and let them practice it together. I explained the basic principles of the Triangle meditation and also told them that if they would use it regularly it would help them in their situation. They assured me that they understood and were willing to do it.

In the next session, which was five weeks after I returned, the patient told me with great joy that many things had changed in the family. She regularly practiced the Triangle with her husband and through that a new communication between them was possible. Although they still couldn’t speak of the problems that caused the most tension and emotion, the strong destructive atmosphere had changed and become much better. They have much more understanding between them and have started a new basis in their relationship.

But the problem with the daughter still existed. She challenges the mother in any way possible for attention. She cries, shouts, scratches the walls when she doesn’t get what she wants and resists obeying the mother. When I asked her to describe the daughter and her feeling towards her, to my surprise she described the daughter as the sunshine of the family and shows an extreme ability to love. On the one hand the mother loves the daughter, but on the other side she has bad thoughts and actions because of the handicap and the fact that the daughter couldn’t accomplish all the things that the mother wanted her to do. There was always tension and fights between them. I asked her how would it be if she allowed herself to accept the spontaneous expression of joy and love of the daughter and be open to that. I emphasized the practice of the Figure 8 exercise with the daughter in the other side of the circle.

About two months later the mother reported great changes in the daughter. Now she doesn’t force the daughter and is enjoying her love and what she is doing. She has recognized many wonderful capacities that she hadn’t seen earlier. For example, the daughter has a very good memory and a great awareness what is happening in the family. But the biggest surprise is that her daughter started speaking! Now she speaks all day long! Until this time she resisted speaking and hadn’t spoken. The mother is now very happy about the daughter and enjoys what the daughter does. She also understands that she now has an ongoing relationship with her daughter where she can take the love of the daughter and also give her love in return.

The mother is now much better. She told me that The Method works like magic, that she believes in the guidance of the Hi C. She can now connect to the Hi C in difficult situations, which centers her to handle them as they arise. Her husband also now comes to me for therapy.

Cutting from Girlfriend

By C.B., Psychological Counselor, Schieder, Germany

My client has a girfriend for more than ten years. He often tried to leave her, but he was not able to be without her. Always when he went back to her he had health problem every time. He knew this relationship was not good for him, but he just was not able to leave her. He did the Cutting from her. A short time later he had a new girlfriend and they are planning to marry.

Using the Hour Glass

By C.B., Psychological Counselor, Schieder, Germany

A couple had a house but not much money. They got credit from a bank for renovation so they could create two apartments to rent out. When it came time to pay the money back to the bank, they still had not found anyone to rent the apartments. When they came to me they were very concerned and worried. We proceeded to clean the room with light and the wife did the Hour Glass for the right tenants. During the next ten days they found the right people who have been good tenants for over three years.